How men in a country whose national past time is rape believe women think

This Man's Mind

I think women (not our daughters, sisters wives or mothers other women) dress in ways to invite attention to themselves. Then they make all this noise to demonise us men.

And of course many women know, they bring rape upon themselves. They dress provocatively, walk provocatively… What do you expect a man to do?

Because women wake up in the morning thinking:

Hmm, today is a good day to be raped. Let me wear this tight top and walk home in the evening. I hope – I really hope – some man pulls me into a ditch, rips off my equally tight trousers, and rapes me. So I can then walk home filthy, naked and bruised and everyone looking at me… because I deserved it.

I feel like being raped today so I’m going to hang out with my boys and rave past midnight and try to catch…

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The days; the world; me in general, I could do without some of the living I have come across today. Confronting discrimination is exhausting. It’s even more tiring when the other party(ies) imagine they have done nothing wrong despite the fact that it’s there in black and white.

What’s so hard about owning up to the way you are? You act that way in any case; what makes you think you should hide and pretend otherwise claiming offense when  you’re offensive all by your lonesome. It’s baffling and tiring.

Had to read so much crap on my TL today on fb and twitter about anti femme and it irks me that the people talking about it don’t see where they are wrong. Yet they keep doing it. Like someone shooting at your head and claiming they don’t even have a gun.

a book they should read and learn differently from.

Justice For Liz

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BusiaRapeOn the International Day of the Girl, we ask you to join us in demanding justice for Liz, a 16 year old girl who was beaten and gang-raped on her way home from her grandfather’s funeral and dumped in a pit latrine in Busia, Kenya. She is now wheelchair bound with a broken spine and has the worst case of fistula. She recognized her rapists and identified them to the police. Police arrested perpetrators only to have them slash grass as ‘punishment’ after which they were released.

Please sign and circulate widely the petition demanding an immediate arrest and prosecution of the perpetrators as well as disciplinary action on the police officers who failed to handle their duties to serve and protect. We must not allow impunity to reign and women and girl’s bodies to continue to be battlefields. No more violence. No more impunity. Justice Now!

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Racism Exposed: Larry “Klansman” Klayman

The Militant Negro™

 

By Jueseppi B.

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I usually do not waste valuable blog post space on racist redneck crackasses….such as this Larry The Klansman. I happen to catch his appearance on The Martin Bashir show and thought to myself, why would Martin and MSNBC waste airtime on this piece of feces. I went as far as to tweet that very question.

 

I was rewarded with the majority consensus that people like this Larry “The Klansman” Klayman needed to be exposed. I have a bad habit of assuming people know what I know and are aware of what I’m aware of when it comes to current events.

 

Freedom Watch’s Larry Klayman on Obama and the Quran

 

Published on Oct 14, 2013

Freedom Watch’s Larry Klayman makes some provocative comments to a group at the WWII Memorial. Don Lemon has more.

 

 

 

Obama Told To Drop The Quran

 

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Questions here, questions there; everywhere

  • 31. Do you have any empty alcohol bottles hidden somewhere in your room?
  • Nope; not even if I was allowed to bring alcohol home would they be hidden.
  • 32. Do you like watching scary movies?
  • Most times, yeah.
  • 33. Do you want your tongue pierced?
  • Nope.
  • 34. If you had to delete one year of your life completely, which would it be?
  • Just one? How about since 2010.
  • 35. Did you have a dream last night?
  • Yes(technically this morning)
  • 36. When was the last time you told someone you loved them?
  • July.
  • 37. Do you think you’ll be married in 5 years?
  • Not if I can help it.
  • 38. Do you think someone has feelings for you?
  • Yep; and their issues are their own.
  • 39. Do you think someone is thinking about you right now?
  • Maybe.
  • 40. Did you have a good day yesterday?
  • Nope.
  • 41. Think back 2 months ago; were you in a relationship?
  • Hell, no.
  • 42. In the next 48 hours, will you hang out with a girl?
  • Probably; if they show up.
  • 43. Has anyone told you they don’t want to ever lose you?
  • Yes; comes with the BFF territory.
  • 44. What’s the best part about school?
  • Liking what I read.
  • 45. Do you have any pictures on your Facebook?
  • Yes; not personal ones though.
  • 46. Do you ever pass notes to your friends in school?
  • Nope. Why do that when I can text? Or pay attention? Or daydream?
  • 47. Do you replay things that have happened in your head?
  • Yes; try out different scenarios.
  • 48. Were you single over the last summer?
  • Erm, I wasn’t available; had a partly definite thing with one guy and flirting with another.
  • 49. Is your life anything like it was two years ago?
  • Mostly, yes. Save for I don’t love anyone anymore.
  • 50. What are you supposed to be doing right now?
  • Probably watching a movie.
  • 51. Do you hate the last guy you had a conversation with?
  • Nope. Feel nothing towards them.
  • 52. Are you nice to everyone?
  • I try to be until they give me a reason not to be.
  • 53. Have you ever liked someone you didn’t expect to?
  • Yes; unfortunately.
  • 54. Do you think you can last in a relationship for 6 months and not cheat?
  • Yes.
  • 55. Are you good at hiding your feelings?
  • Perfectly. Apathy is good for a reason.
  • 56. Do you think you like someone?
  • No. I know I don’t.
  • 57. Have you kissed someone whose name starts with a ‘J’?
  • Not at all. Not yet.
  • 58. Do you prefer to be friends with girls or boys?
  • Girls; boys are such drags.
  • 59. Has anyone of your friends ever seen you cry? Yes; not my current ones though.
  • 60. Do you hate anyone?
  • Yes; 95% of the male population.
  • 61. How’s your heart?
  • Beating.
  • 62. Is there something that happened in your past that you hate talking about?
  • Yeah; especially when it’s very embarrassing.
  • 63. Have you ever cried over a guy?
  • Yep. It was when I decided to acknowledge I didn’t love him anymore.
  • 64. Who is probably talking a load of crap about you right now?
  • Whoever it is better be using good grammar.
  • 65. Are your toenails painted pink?
  • No; silver.
  • 66. Will your next kiss be a mistake?
  • I hope not.
  • 67. Girls love it when boyfriends cry; correct?
  • Dominas do.
  • 68. Have your pants ever fallen down in public?
  • Not that I can remember.
  • 69. Who was the last person you were on the phone with?
  • My aunt, I think.
  • 70. How do you look right now? Slightly tired; been a day that started early.
  • 71. Do you have someone you can be your complete self around?
  • Nope. I form myself for the person it suits.
  • 72. Can you commit to one person? Maybe; depends on the situation and the person.
  • 73. Do you have someone of the opposite sex you can tell everything to?
  • Nope.
  • 74. Have you ever felt replaced?
  • Yes; it sucked balls.
  • 75. Did you wake up cranky?
  • Nope; but I almost did become cranky. Don’t like being woken up.
  • 76. Are you a jealous person?
  • Depends on the situation but mostly, no.
  • 77. Are relationships ever worth it?
  • Some of them are. Some of them not.
  • 78. Anyone you’re giving up on?
  • Yes. Everyone really.
  • 79. Currently wanting to see anyone?
  • Nope.
  • 80. Name something you have to do tomorrow?
  • Watch Gravity.
  • 81. Last person you cried in front of?
  • Not sure. Don’t remember.
  • 82. Is there someone you will never forget?
  • A couple dozen, yes.
  • 83. Do you think the person you have feelings for is protective of you?
  • I don’t have feelings for anyone.
  • 84. If the person you wish to be with were with you, what would you be doing right now?
  • What I’m doing. chilling for them to be done shooting and text me.
  • 85. Are you over your past?
  • Not all of it.
  • 86. Have you ever liked one of your best friends of the opposite sex?
  • Yep.
  • 87. Is there anyone you can tell EVERYTHING to?
  • Nope.
  • 88. If your first true love knocked on your door with apology and presents, would you accept?
  • Nope.
  • 89. So, the last person you kissed just happens to arrive at your door at 3AM; do you let them in?
  • Nope. They’d probably be high.
  • 90. Have you ever liked someone who your friends hated?
  • Nope.
  • 91. Will you be in a relationship in 2 months?
  • Not if I can help it.
  • 92. Is there anyone you know with the name Michael?
  • A cousin.
  • 93. Have you ever kissed a Matthew?
  • Nope.
  • 94. Were you in a relationship in January? How was it going?
  • Nope; whatever it was, was okay.
  • 95. Were you happy with the person you liked in March?
  • Not then, I wasn’t.
  • 96. Don’t tell me lies, is the last person you texted attractive?
  • Yes.
  • 97. Who do you have texts from?
  • The service provider; I hate communicating.
  • 98. If the person you like says they like someone else, what would you say?
  • Cool.
  • 99. Have you ever kissed someone older than you?
  • Nope; not yet.
  • 100. Who’s in your profile picture with you?
  • WordPress
  • 101. Ever kissed under fireworks?
  • Not yet.
  • 102. Has anybody ever given you butterflies?
  • Yes.

Fictional Friday

My birthday was this past month.

I wasn’t up to it for a lot of reasons, one being, I wasn’t feeling it.

So I planned to stay home. Read, TV, sleep and stay silent.

My friends and family had other plans though, starting with my elder sister.

I’m chilling in bed, trying to daydream but I think I’m all out of dreams; happens when you sleep more than 12 hours; when she comes into the room and squares me with a glare.

“Get up and get dressed,” she said. “You’re going to look great and pose for my camera with your cake.”

Of course, cake got me out of bed. It’s cake! So, I dressed in what she’d already picked out

She said it would go well with my hair; strips of it are dyed blue and silver. I donned it and went downstairs where a beautiful cake awaited me. She’d outdone herself this year.

I was so pleased that I hugged her. Afterwards, she took numerous shots of her handiwork; adjusting my hair and poses until she got what she wanted and then she said we could dig in. While we ate; my friends called her and they made some sort of deal. My intentions of having a silent day had included switching off my phone. Hadn’t even gone online with the laptop.

Before I could refuse the plan, she was pulling me out the door with shoes and bags in one hand and me and her car keys in the other. They dug painfully into my wrist. Still got a mark from the bruising, I swear. She pushed me into the car; got in before I could get out and by then I wasn’t even trying to fight against her wishes. She’d bought me cake!

She drove us to Viewpoint along the Nairobi-Nakuru highway, just before Longonot, blasting my favourite rock songs all the way and making me laugh with impressions and puns and singing incorrect lyrics.

Viewpoint is breathtaking. I loved it. After an hour, we came back to Nairobi for yet another “It’s not a surprise, I promise.”

It wasn’t a surprise but it was still pleasant. We watched a movie at IMAX with my sister springing for cocktails from the adjacent lounge. The movie was suddenly ten times better with fruity cocktails and Pacific Rim is already pretty cool sober.

After the movie, my friends met us in the lobby and after promising my sister to keep me safe and well entertained, I was spirited off(rather pulled away hurriedly) to a taxi which drove us to a house in Syokimau. Syokimau looks like a free development suburb; no lie. The only design rule the houses follow is that they shouldn’t be more than two floors in the airplane traffic corridor. So in the midst of bungalows, stood this impressive mansion.

My breath was sufficiently taken away. Inside were a group of my friends and the house’s owner who hugged me her birthday greetings after the “Surprise!” and said she was only too happy to help my best friends host it for me. I was floored. I know my friends are friends with millionaires and high rollers but this was beyond my expectations.

The dancing started soon enough; it had only paused for the greeting; and while people made a dancefloor of the living room, I was given a glass of champagne and a tour of the house. Mansion. It is grand. Black and cream colour scheme with obsidian trimmings, wooden and glass furnishings and lush, leather seating. I was in awe. And her library; so huge. It had more books than I could count.

But as I was reminded; I wasn’t there to read books; I was there to celebrate and celebrate we did.

We almost forgot the presents. They came out and it was a blast. Someone got me a blender even though I already have one at home. Someone else got me a coffee mug even though I hate coffee. I told them I would forever use it to drink tea. They were amused and slightly offended. Someone got me a man. I looked at my best friend who giggled mischievously and I would have scolded her but for me being very attracted to him.

Look at that 😀

Then the other present came along and it was from my other best friend. A very sexy swimsuit. I glanced at her with a smile and she demanded I put it on right then and go swimming. No matter how much I yelled no, they yelled yes louder. I fell into their pressure and changed into the outfit in one of the bathrooms and came out to cat-calls and appreciative whistles and more people in swimsuits than I had left.

Then the pool party was in full swing and in between laps; I lounged at the edges with my best friend and my man-present who showed as much interest in me as I did in him. He was very okay with my touchy ways.

Eventually, the party died down; but I was still amped. So, me, my best friends and my man-present grabbed robes and went to the roof to watch the sunrise. And I could honestly say that it was a great birthday.

10 Cities I’d Love to Visit

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The world is full of places to see and things to do, and at times I’ve wondered about the many places I’d go if I could take a grand trip around the world. The list of gorgeous cities and historical sites I’ve compiled would take days to list, but here is a short list of cities around the world that I’d love to see and explore one day. Feel free to add any suggestions!

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10. Innsbruck, Austria

Innsbruck is a historic city in western Austria known for its mountain backdrop. It has beautiful constructions dating back to medieval times, like the Golden Roof built by Archduke Friedrich IV, and Maria Theresien Street, pictured here.

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9. Chaguaramas, Trinidad

Meaning “The Land of the Palms,” Chaguaramas is a small coastal city in northwestern Trinidad. The beautiful beach area has must-see natural scenery, such as The Bamboo Cathedral, a stretch of road hailed by…

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